Church - Find a local bible teaching church, one you can go to in person. God meant us to live in community and have relationships with others. We were not made to be alone. Find a church that welcomes sinners as that is what the church is. Broken people that are hurting and make mistakes. To learn about God and submit their life to him, striving to love like Jesus each day.

Consistency - Quality community and relationships require consistency, once you find a church, attend regularly and look for small groups to be a part of.  Keep looking for a church until you find one you are loved, welcomed, and leans into the truth from scripture (The Bible). Don't give up, God loves you, there is so much hope. He has a community, healthy friendships and a plan for you. 

Mentor - As you meet new people seek a mentor of the same gender to bring you closer to Christ. Grow in friendship together