Church - Find a local bible teaching church, one you can go to in person. God meant us to live in community and have relationships with others. We were not made to be alone. Find a church that welcomes sinners as that is what the church is. broken sinners who are striving to be more like Jesus each day. 

Consistency - Quality community and relationships require consistency, once you find a church, attend regularly and look for small groups to be a part of.  Keep looking for a church until you find one you are loved, welcomed, and leans into the truth from scripture (The Bible). Don't give up, God loves you, there is so much hope. He has a community, healthy friendships and a plan for you.